I have a deep passion for reading books and as usual one fine day I was engrossed in the same.
Sakshi, my newfound friend, who loves having conversation, dancing on her own tunes, and asking random questions about the world, came and settled next to me. She watched me closely enough with an unnatural gaze and had my attention with an unexpected request– if I had a pen. Since I had a pen I affirmed her request. It was then she made a unique and heartfelt request; she asked me to write her name on her hand in all the languages i knew, as she yearned to learn it.
At that moment a profound silence passed through us causing both of us to lower our gazes. It was an unspoken understanding that passed between us and suddenly all the questions Sakshi had asked about the world began to make perfect sense.
In that quiet moment, it became clear that there are countless young souls like Sakshi scattered across the world, quietly waiting for their lives to undergo a magical transformation. Girls like her don’t require a specific day for themselves to “celebrate.” Instead, they hunger for access to proper education, fundamental human rights, unwavering support from their communities, and, most importantly, the right guidance to nurture their dreams and aspirations.
Sakshi’s simple request served as a reminder of the profound changes that can be brought about in the world when we empower and uplift young minds like hers.
Considering that this day often remains unknown to many, one might wonder, whose day is it, anyway? The International Day of the Girl Child is not just about celebrating the girls we see, but it’s a day dedicated to raising awareness about the countless rights that girls inherently possess. These encompass essential aspects such as access to education, healthcare, nutrition, and the fundamental need for a safe and inclusive environment for everyone.
Regrettably, despite the numerous movements and designated days aimed at improving their lives, there are still roadblocks in the path of progress. These girls are acutely aware that they are “allowed” to attend school only until a certain age or in specific circumstances. They understand that, inevitably, there will come a time when they are expected to enter into marriage. This is a pattern they have witnessed throughout their communities, with little room for questioning or deviation. It forms a relentless cycle, where a lack of access to quality education often leads to early marriages, followed by premature pregnancies, compromised health, mistreatment, malnutrition, vulnerability to sexual abuse, and exploitation.
In a nutshell, they remain ignorant of their rights as an individual — the right to lead a normal and healthy life, the right to question, the right to work.
So, On this International girl child day or on any day of the year let’s extend our hands towards a change that can actually make a difference in someone’s life.